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LOVE

I remember when I was first being taught about love. Wow, did it ever trigger me! As far as I cared there was no love here, it was all a mockery, and I didn't want any thing to do with it. But you see, I was like many others, who compared love to trust issues. It's our lack of trust that obscures the true meaning of love. If we distrust others, then you can count on the fact that you distrust your 'self' too. Go ahead and argue with me, but you're wasting your energy, for one, because you wouldn't be arguing with me, and two because this teaching is the truth.

You are the only one on this planet who really knows yourself and your needs. If you are purpose driven then who or where do you go for answers? Of course, the higher aspects of self. But if you distrust yourself then you will never learn what you should be learning. It's all locked up in your soul consciousness, but if you don't trust it, then again, it won't happen.

And this comes back to love. To most of us, we equate love to distrust, which is why we never quite give our all to a relationship. You might think you do, but I ask you to be totally honest with yourself. You grow accustomed to being afraid of trusting because you 'know' how it always ends up, so why bother? I am not going to get specific about abuse, molestation, rape, you name it, because it's those things that have stripped us of our trust. Believe me when I say, I've been there, done that, and definitely got the t-shirt!

I can't tell you how many times I read about relationships where one person admits that although the relationship isn't as fulfilling as they would like, that they will stick to it because they love that person, and they will just deal with how they really feel. Whoa! Do you realize how miserable you will make yourself AND your partner? It might not appear for some time, but it will appear, you can bank on it! Truth has a way of doing that to us!

This behaviour is borne of distrust, not love, because one, you distrust self, and two, because you have no respect for the partner that you are subjecting to your dysfunctional thinking. And you do this in the name of love. In the end you will wear the badge of a martyr because you will someday announce, "I did all I could, and the failure of the relationship wasn't my fault." And sadly, how many months, years, even decades will you put into this flawed relationship? How much time will you waste because you didn't trust yourself and your self-honesty? Self-trust and self-knowing will lead you to real love, and in that love, you will discover your true purpose. It doesn't work the other way around.

The heart is not just an electrically powered muscle responsible for your life. It is your love center, and whether you know this or not, it is the place where your entire history to date is recorded. Yes, your brain is a remarkable piece of your anatomy, but for this discussion we are talking about love, emotions and the heart. Love is the highest most pure form of energy there is. Energy! And that energy is what connects to other energy or frequency, be it human or otherworldly (higher worlds/dimensions and higher self-consciousness).

If you know about auras, you know about the many layers of auras. This is true with every organ in your body. For example, let's say there are 9 layers of auras, doesn't it stand to reason that there are 9 layers of consciousness for each layer? Therefore, there are 9 layers of functioning per organ, or every single molecule in your body for that matter? And each layer has its own intelligence and perception. And just as the heart works with the brain, each layer does, too. I know this is deep, but stick with it, you'll get it.

Back to your history being recorded on the heart. The heart is a feeling center and no matter what you experience, it is done so with the heart, and the heart then transposes or records it to the brain and to the totality of your being. Ever heard of cellular memory? Ever heard the stories of phantom limb pain? That's cellular memory, and it matters not if it is pain, laughter, hurt, joy, whatever, it's all recorded, eventually, upon every molecule of your body. So, when it comes time to cleanse yourself of let's say your anger or whatever, it isn't just a process that involves your thinking about it them moving on. What you accomplish there is the same thing you've done all your life. Meaning, nothing!

The first step is forgiveness, and not of someone else, but yourself. This takes strong resolve if you intend to go forth, so keep reading and thinking about this. You must acknowledge all the hurts and whatever's that you have experienced all your life, BUT the forgiveness must be directed at yourself. Why? Because you are the one who has held onto the past. You are the one who made the situation much worse by letting it consume you. You are the one who has suffered most, all because you are the one who didn't know that you were doing this to you.

So, forgiveness starts with self! I said before in another page that we are remarkable works of art, science and spirit, and we are. You must start believing that, and through that beautiful compliment, you must realize how important you are in the overall scheme of things. If you are alive and reading this, then your presence is still required!

There are thousands of ways out there to help a person with self-forgiveness, so I won't waste time repeating them here. But, the most important thing to realize is that you held onto those negative memories and emotions because no one told you that you didn't have to. They were so profoundly painful that you just did what you thought was right. Actually, there was very little if any conscious thought to that process at all. But because you are a remarkable human being, you have the ability to forgive yourself for something that you didn't know you had done.

After that, and don't move on until you really own the forgiveness. Take all the time you need. This is not a test, or a timed challenge! Once you are satisfied that you are finally on the road to self-healing, and self-empowerment, then and only then do you tackle the forgiveness of others. When you do, it will amaze you to find that you can forgive them much easier and much more quickly than what you had to go through for your own self-forgiveness. It's because the past just doesn't matter any more and for the first time in your life you will be able to see and understand that. Who you were yesterday is not who you are today. Allow yourself that freedom from this point on.

Now you are ready to move on to the real subject of love, but I ask that you read this over again and tackle the tasks at hand. There will be more on love in the following levels. As for now, get busy, you have to re-read this page before doing anything else!

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Namaste, you precious soul you!